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From the Pastor - Feast of the Holy Family

December 27, 2024

The Holy Family experienced many of the same joys and trials that all parents and children experience today. And so, we can look to this Family for help in our own family lives and see in them a model of stewardship in family life.


The Gospel passage from Luke starts by telling us something about Jesus’ parents: “Each year Jesus’ parents went to Jerusalem for the feast of the Passover, and when he was 12 years old, they went up according to festival custom.” This Family took seriously the stewardship of their time. The “Holy Couple” carefully observed the traditions and practice of their Jewish faith and brought up their Son to do the same. They worshiped as a family, and with their faith community. And they did so faithfully.


We can take their example to heart by making Sunday Mass attendance a priority for our families, by making prayer with our family a priority every day, by making sure that we regularly celebrate the Sacrament of Reconciliation, and by observing in our family life the feasts and fasts appropriate to the liturgical calendar. When we, as families, prioritize our Time with God and worship of Him we will be imitating the Holy Family.


On this Feast of the Holy Family, let us reclaim the beauty and importance of family life. Let’s commit to steward our families well in the coming year, making time spent with God and practicing our faith the most important appointments on our family calendars.

© Catholic Stewardship Consultants, 2024


Pastoral Pondering

From a Catholic perspective, family life holds a central and sacred place as it is considered the foundation of both society and the Church. The importance of family life can be understood through the following key principles:


1. The Family as a Domestic Church

The Catholic Church views the family as the "domestic church," where faith is nurtured and lived daily. Parents are the primary educators of their children in the faith, passing on values, traditions, and the love of God.
Family prayer, participation in the sacraments, and fostering a spirit of charity and forgiveness help the family grow in holiness.

2. A Reflection of the Holy Trinity

The love shared among family members is seen as a reflection of the Holy Trinity's divine communion. Just as the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit are united in perfect love, family members are called to live in self-giving love and unity.

3. Marriage as a Sacrament

Marriage, as a covenant between a baptized man and a baptized woman, is a sacrament in the Catholic Church. It symbolizes Christ's love for His Church and provides the foundation for a stable and nurturing environment for children.

The Church teaches that the marital bond is permanent and open to life, emphasizing the procreation and upbringing of children as fundamental purposes of marriage.

4. The Role of Love and Sacrifice

Family life is a school of love, sacrifice, and service. Through mutual respect, understanding, and selflessness, family members learn to imitate Christ's sacrificial love.

Challenges in family life are seen as opportunities for growth in virtue and reliance on God's grace.

5. A Source of Moral Formation

The family is the first place where individuals learn moral values, discipline, and social responsibilities. Parents are tasked with guiding their children toward virtuous living and preparing them for life in the broader community.

This role is rooted in the belief that the family is a cornerstone for the moral and spiritual health of society.

6. A Witness to the Gospel

A loving, faithful family becomes a visible witness to the Gospel in the world. Families are called to be missionary by spreading the love of Christ through their actions and relationships, both within and outside the home.

7. Support in Challenges

The Church acknowledges the difficulties families face, such as financial strain, health issues, or relationship conflicts. It offers pastoral care, counseling, and support, urging families to rely on prayer, the sacraments, and the wider Church community for strength.


In summary, from a Catholic viewpoint, family life is essential for personal growth, faith development, and societal well-being. It is a sacred vocation that calls for love, commitment, and trust in God's plan, emphasizing the role of the family in building a strong, faithful, and loving Church and society.

 

 

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From the Pastor - Second Sunday of Lent

By John Putnam • March 15, 2025
In last week’s Gospel, we followed Jesus into the desert where He fasted and prayed. This week, He leads us up a mountain to witness His Transfiguration. Why both of these experiences? He is preparing us to go with Him in a few short weeks to a hilltop — Golgotha — where He will lay down His life for our sake, and then finally to take us to an empty cave where He triumphed over sin and death once and for all. Jesus perfectly understands our humanity. He knows we need desert experiences — times of self-denial and testing — in order to arrive at mountain-top moments when we see and feel His glorious presence in our lives. The purpose of these two types of experiences is summed up in the description of the Apostles who were with Jesus at that mountain-top experience in today’s Gospel: “Peter and his companions had been overcome by sleep, but becoming fully awake, they saw his glory….” The reason for all of our fasting and prayer and almsgiving during lent is to be reawakened to all God has done for humanity, and to all that He has done for each of us personally. It is all too easy to get lulled into complacency in our daily routines, to “sleepwalk” through life, getting up and getting ourselves out the door, going to work, returning home for dinner and dishes, meetings, or sports activities, and finally flopping on the couch to watch TV until bedtime. While there is nothing inherently sinful in this routine, as Christian stewards, we are called to so much more! This lent, let us train ourselves, or more precisely, allow Him to train us to say “Yes” to His will and to offer our lives back to Him in gratitude. In so doing, we, too, will become “transfigured.” This is what it means to live fully awake; this is a stewardship way of life, and it is glorious indeed. ©Catholic Stewardship Consultants, 2025 Pastoral Pondering Most Catholics have a general understanding of penance and the importance of doing penance; although, we can always use deeper understanding. Another connected topic that is often not understood in reparation. In Catholic theology, reparation is the act of making amends or atoning for sin and offenses against God. It acknowledges the reality that sin not only harms the sinner but also disrupts the order of justice and love in the world. Penance and reparation are closely related concepts in Catholic theology, both dealing with the response to sin and the desire for spiritual renewal, but they focus on different aspects of the response. Penance is usually associated with the Sacrament of Reconciliation. It involves the steps the penitent takes to express sorrow for sin, receive forgiveness from God, and begin the journey of conversion. Reparation, on the other hand, goes further. Penance addresses internal conversion. Reparation addresses the external consequences and the harm caused by sin. Reparation involves making amends and acting to repair the damage inflicted by one’s sins on the individual, others, and the broader community. It is an expression of justice and love, aiming to restore balance and harmony. We can also note that reparation serves several important purposes in the spiritual realm: 1. Restoration of Justice : Sin creates a disruption in the divine order and justice that needs to be rectified. Through acts of reparation, the faithful participate in restoring what was disrupted, aligning more closely with God's righteousness. 2. Participation in Redemption : Through Christ's sacrifice, the ultimate act of reparation was made for humanity's sins. By making reparation, Catholics participate in that redemptive work, uniting their efforts with Christ's and continuing His mission of healing and reconciliation.  3. Spiritual Growth : Acts of reparation help individuals grow in humility, contrition, and love for God. By acknowledging personal shortcomings and deliberately seeking to amend them, believers become more like Christ, growing closer to God. 4. Intercessory Role : Catholics believe in the communal nature of the Church, where the prayers and actions of one can benefit others. Acts of reparation are seen as an intercessory action on behalf of the whole Church, offering support and spiritual help to others in the community and in the world. Reparation can take many forms, including prayer, fasting, almsgiving, and acts of charity, each offering a means of contributing to the mission and witness of the Church.

From the Pastor - First Sunday of Lent

By John Putnam • March 7, 2025
Today’s readings exhort us Christian disciples to form ourselves — mind and heart — in imitation of Christ so we can better reflect His goodness in our daily lives. The first reading from Sirach offers timeless counsel: “the fruit of a tree shows the care it has had: so too does one’s speech disclose the bent of one’s mind. Praise no one before he speaks.” Jesus uses the very same analogy in today’s Gospel reading from Luke: “A good tree does not bear rotten fruit, nor does a rotten tree bear good fruit. For every tree is known by its own fruit.” Everything we have is a gift from God to be used for His honor and glory. This includes the gift of speech and, even more broadly, all forms of modern-day communication — email, text, TikTok, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, and the rest. What comes forth from our mouths, or keyboard, or phone, reflects what is in our minds and hearts. Our ability to communicate with each other is itself a gift which we must steward well. In the same Gospel passage, Jesus reminds us, “No disciple is superior to the teacher; but when fully trained, every disciple will be like his teacher.” The more time we spend with Jesus, our teacher, through regular prayer and a strong sacramental life, the more we will become like Him. Then all that we do and say (and tweet and post) will bring others to closer to Him. This is the life’s work of the Christian steward. It is privileged work indeed. © Catholic Stewardship Consultants, 2025 Pastoral Pondering If I had to give this post a name, it would be Of Hosts and Hymnals. The reason for that name will become clear in a moment. Most Catholics have some degree of awareness that the Most Holy Eucharist is central to our Catholic faith. The Church, in fact, describes the Eucharist as the source and summit of our faith. The Eucharist is the saving flow from the temple described to Ezekiel from which all the treasures of the sacramental life flow and the ultimate goal of every faithful Christian life. Nonetheless, at times, we all need to be reminded of this awe-inspiring reality. As human beings, familiarity can breed contempt, and we can allow Holy Mass, and even reception of Holy Communion, to become habitual and common place. In so doing, we run the risk of stripping the Most Holy Sacrament of its sublime reality. Recently, a parishioner discovered a presumably consecrated Host stuck between two pages of a hymnal. While this is certainly shocking and scandalous, I don’t share it with you to cause shock and scandal but to remind us all of the need to be vigilant. We first need to guard ourselves so that we never become indifferent to what occurs at Holy Mass, and second, always insure that we show the Eucharist the proper reverence and respect that is right and just. We do ask our ushers and security volunteers to be mindful of the importance of insuring that communicants receive and consume the Host, but they, along with both the ordinary and extraordinary ministers of Holy Communion, cannot observe everything. Hence, it is always a good idea for all of us to be mindful. My hope and prayer is that such sacrilege only occurred due to ignorance rather than malice. On any given Sunday, those who have no experience of the Mass find themselves here for one reason or another. This is even more the case at funerals and weddings during the week. If we invite non-Catholic friends (or non-practicing Catholics) to Mass, and we certainly should, it is incumbent upon us to make sure that they understand the norms for the Reception of Holy Communion. These norms are usually published each week in the bulletin. Along the same lines, it is always appropriate, if you see someone who appears confused, uncertain, or is walking away with a host, to lovingly speak to them and help them in the moment. A few reminders might also be helpful: Reception of Holy Communion is reserved to practicing Catholics who are properly disposed and in a state of grace. On a practical level this means he or she is not conscious of mortal sin and has been actively practicing the faith through participation at Mass and in the sacramental life of the Church. When approaching to receive Holy Communion, the communicant may receive on the tongue or on the hand. Those who choose to receive on the hand should make a sign of reverence (normally a bow) and consume the Host before walking away from the minister. Those choosing to receive on the hand must have both hands free. The Host is never taken from the minister. It is always received. Hence, for those who do not have the use of both hands, for whatever reason, should receive on the tongue. All ministers of Holy Communion are instructed to follow this norm. This protects the host from falling. Following the reception of Holy Communion, it is proper to return to the pew and offer a prayer of thanksgiving. Leaving Mass immediately after reception is not only disrespectful but can be sinful if it is done without necessity. After all Judas Iscariot was only apostle to leave the Last Supper early, and we know how that ended up.  Being conscious of these simple norms and aware of the great gift that we have in the Most Holy Sacrament of the Altar, will not only help to protect and preserve the Blessed Sacrament but will also help each of us have a more fruitful reception of the Sacrament and benefit more fully from this sublime gift that the Lord provides for us.
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