Today’s readings are in stark contrast to the joy of the holiday season that is fast approaching, warning us instead of dark times ahead and our inevitable judgment day.
The first reading from the prophet Daniel describes a time “unsurpassed in distress since nations began” and warns that “many of those who sleep in the dust of the earth shall awake; some shall live forever, and others shall be an everlasting horror and disgrace.” The second reading, from Hebrews, speaks of Christ who “waits until his enemies are made his footstool.”
However, when we firmly establish for ourselves as individuals — as a family and as a parish that we will give to God the first and best portion of our Time, Talent, and Treasure — the warnings we read in the Scriptures today should be no cause for alarm. In fact, we can view these words as encouragement — “Keep Calm and Steward On,” no matter what comes our way.
One of the blessings of a stewardship way of life is that in challenging times, whether in our homes or workplaces or even our beloved Church itself, we can take great comfort in knowing we have a concrete plan to keep our priorities in proper order. And, when we put God first in all aspects of our lives, we will experience the peace that He gives that surpasses all understanding. © Catholic Stewardship Consultants, 2021.
Pastoral Pondering – November is set aside in a special way to pray for those who have died. We have a special obligation to do this for our relatives and friends. The Mass, of course, is the most efficacious prayer that can be offered, and I encourage folks as they are doing advance planning for their funeral (which I recommend for everyone to do!) to make provision for Masses to be offered for the repose of your soul.
Folks often have questions about end-of-life issues and particularly about Catholic funerals. This is especially true when a parent dies and the children no longer practice the faith. With this in mind, here are some bullet points that might be helpful:
• A baptized Catholic, unless prohibited by ecclesiastical authority, has a right to have a Catholic funeral and burial. It is important to make your wishes known before the need arises so that your heirs, or whomever is responsible for your arrangements, knows that you want the proper Catholic funeral rites.
• While cremation is allowed, as long as it is not chosen for reasons contrary to Catholic faith, it is not encouraged. In case of necessity the Church’s preference is to have the body present for the funeral Mass so that the full ritual can be afforded the deceased.
• The remains, be it the body or cremains, are to be treated equally with respect. Hence, burial or interment is required. In the case of cremation, the ashes must not be distributed among family members, kept at home or sprinkled. They are to be kept intact. For veterans of the United States Navy, burial at sea can be arranged through appropriate channels.
• Pre-planning is helpful to all who will be involved in your funeral rites. Funeral directors are very good at assisting with this, and a copy of your plans can be filed with the parish. Pre-planning the Mass, including the music and readings can also be facilitated through the parish office. When this type of planning occurs, it helps our families and ensures that the focus can be on the prayer for the deceased rather than all the details.
The Holy See has extended the ability to obtain a plenary indulgence for the souls in purgatory throughout the month of November. This is accomplished by visiting a cemetery, a church or an oratory and reciting an Our Father and the Creed.
A plenary indulgence remits all temporal punishment due to sin. It must always be accompanied by a full detachment from sin.
A Catholic who wishes to obtain a plenary indulgence must also fulfill the ordinary conditions of an indulgence, which are sacramental confession, reception of the Eucharist, and prayer for the pope’s intentions.
Sacramental confession and reception of the Eucharist can occur up to about 20 days before or after the indulgenced act.
With the decree for pandemic conditions, those who cannot leave home, such as the sick and the elderly, can still obtain an indulgence by reciting prayers for the deceased before an image of Jesus or the Virgin Mary.
They must also spiritually unite themselves to other Catholics, be completely detached from sin, and have the intention of fulfilling the ordinary conditions as soon as possible.
The Vatican’s decree offered examples of prayers that homebound Catholics can pray for the dead, including lauds or vespers of the Office for the Dead, the rosary, the Chaplet of the Divine Mercy, other prayers for deceased among their family or friends, or performing a work of mercy by offering their pain and discomfort to God.