From the Pastor - 14th Sunday in Ordinary Time

July 2, 2021

Our readings today remind us that, even in our weakest and toughest moments, God has a plan.

 

In our Second Reading, St. Paul describes a “thorn” that had been given to him. He believed this thorn to be the thing that kept him grounded as he said, “to beat me, to keep me from being too elated.”

 

At first, he asked the Lord to remove this cross, but the Lord replied, “My grace is sufficient for you, for power is made perfect in weakness.” Through this explanation, St. Paul resolved to believe, “I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions and constraints, for the sake of Christ; for when I am weak, then I am strong.”

 

We all bear crosses in this life, whether they seem to be little thorns or sharp daggers. The easiest thing to do, as St. Paul did, is to pray for the cross to be taken. It would be great if all of our struggles just magically faded away! But listen to the Lord’s words, “My grace is sufficient for you, for power is made perfect in weakness.”

 

Stop and reflect on your cross. Instead of wishing it to go away, look at it as an opportunity to grow and to allow God to work in your life. God permitted this cross in your life for a reason. Do not let the opportunity for Christ to work on your heart pass you by.

 

Today, recall that God loves us more than we could ever imagine. There is not a moment that goes by that He does not have us in mind. He has a specific plan for our lives. Therefore, may we encounter life’s challenges with confidence in Christ. 

 

Pastoral Pondering –The clergy personnel changes this year have been a challenge due to a number of factors. With that being said, I can inform you that, as was indicated previously, Father Michael Carlson will be coming to St. Mark and will begin his service on July 13th. Father Carlson will be doing work at the Diocesan Chancery and Tribunal during the week and helping out here on the weekends through the end of August. Father Matthew Bean, presently at St. Thomas Aquinas, will become parochial vicar here at St. Mark on July 13th as well. As noted last week, it is expected that Father Carlson will move to full time graduate study in January at St. Paul University in Ottawa, Canada. Father Gámez will be remaining with us until August 16 when his begins his new assignment at Our Lady of Mercy and Our Lady of Fatima Chapel in Winston-Salem. We are glad that he will be with us a bit longer.

 

The closing on the new rectory took place on July 1st. Our plan will be to be moved there by the end of July if not before. Our plan is to stop using the old rectory at Ranson Road for parish functions and move those to the present rectory.

 

Finally, before moving into the continuing discussion of what makes a practicing Catholic via the precepts of the Church, I want to point out what the US Bishops recently did at their summer meeting regarding Eucharistic Coherence. CNN et other outlets has indicated that the US Bishops voted to deny President Biden Communion. This is simply not true. The Bishops voted on allowing their Doctrine Committee to move forward with drafting a document that would address the issue of public figures presenting themselves as devout or practicing Catholics while at the same time promoting positions that are contrary to the teachings of the Church. While well-known politicians get most of the press coverage, the same concern would apply to any public person, e.g., an actor, a TV personality, a well-known athlete, who presents him or herself as a devout Catholic while espousing clearly non-Catholic positions. Hence, this is not a political matter. It is a matter of faith and morals. In these situations, conversations are always had between the public person and their bishop to try to resolve the matter. This is done quietly and respectfully. However, when these avenues fail, in order to protect the faith, the shepherds have an obligation to be very clear about what is true regarding faith and morals and pointing out the inconsistency present and the scandal caused by the offending individual. The aim is always the reconciliation and a call to repentance.

 

The fourth precept is addressed in paragraph 2043 of the Catechism: The fourth precept (“You shall observe the days of fasting and abstinence established by the Church”) ensures the times of ascesis and penance which prepare us for the liturgical feasts and help us acquire mastery over our instincts and freedom of heart. In the Church’s law, this precept is explained, from a practical standpoint, in canons 1249-1251 of the Code of Canon Law.

Canon 1249 states: “The divine law binds all the Christian faithful to do penance each in his or her own way. In order for all to be united among themselves by some common observance of penance, however, penitential days are prescribed on which the Christian faithful devote themselves in a special way to prayer, perform works of piety and charity, and deny themselves by fulfilling their own obligations more faithfully and especially by observing fast and abstinence, according to the norm of the following canons.”

 

Canon 1250 states: “The penitential days and times in the universal Church are every Friday of the whole year and the season of Lent (emphasis added). The second half of the text in bold is fairly well understood by everyone. The first half, however, is often over-looked. Every Friday is a day of penance (excepting solemnities that fall on a particular Friday during the year). Outside of Lent, an individual is free to choose a penance in place of abstinence from meat if he or she does not choose to abstain (see canon 1251) and fasting is always to be observed on Ash Wednesday and Good Friday; although, it is a laudable practice at other times to grow in the virtues of temperance and fortitude.

 

While the law of abstinence binds those who have completed fourteen years of age (canon 1252), parents and those who assist them in the formation of their children should not fail to instill a genuine sense of penance in their lives and the ways in which the Catholic people are asked to live that sense out. Canon 1253 allows the Conference of. Bishops to specify in greater detail the requirements in its territory as well as substitute works of charity and exercises of piety when that is appropriate.

 

Hence, a penitential spirit is to be a part of all of our lives. As the Lord reminds us, if you would be my disciples, take up your cross and follow me (see Matthew 16:24).

From the Pastor

By John Putnam • November 13, 2026
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By John Putnam • November 6, 2026
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