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From the Pastor - 27th Sunday in Ordinary Time

October 1, 2021

Our readings this week speak to each of our domestic churches — the little churches that we call our families.

 

The First Reading from the book of Genesis takes us to the beginning of creation when God made man and woman. When Adam sees the woman he says, “This one, at last, is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; this one shall be called ‘woman.’”

 

We can almost hear the longing, gratitude, and appreciation in Adam’s voice when he meets Eve as he says, “at last.” She was a gift because she was an equal partner to him.

 

This was before the fall of man, meaning sin had not entered the world. Adam and Eve only viewed each other in total acceptance and love.

 

Our Gospel brings us to life after sin had entered the world — a time that is familiar to us. As the Pharisees questioned Jesus about divorce, He expressed that Moses permitted it because of the hardness of man’s heart. However, Jesus was calling them to deeper holiness. He was calling them to restore the original plan God had intended for marriage, “A man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.”

 

Jesus’ words still apply to us here and now in each of our domestic churches. It is the task of families to tirelessly work to restore God’s original plan for marriage and family life — homes filled with gratitude, acceptance, and love.

 

It takes a daily commitment to live out our call to holiness to restore our families to this beautiful image. © Catholic Stewardship Consultants, 2021

 

Pastoral Pondering – In light of our Gospel this weekend, I thought it would be a good opportunity to reflect on the Church’s teaching on marriage and divorce and to also explain, in light of the magisterium of Pope Francis, the Church’s approach to these often difficult and complex situations.

 

The Catechism of the Catholic Church summarizes the Church’s teaching regarding marriage in paragraphs 1659-1666. Marriage is described as a covenant relationship, between a man and a woman, that is characterized by unity, indissolubility, and fecundity (openness to children). This union signified the union of Christ and the Church and is ordered toward the salvation of souls; specifically, that of the spouses and their children. In light of this the Church teaches that “Unity, indissolubility, and openness to fertility are essential to marriage. Polygamy is incompatible with the unity of marriage; divorce separates what God has joined together; the refusal of fertility turns married life away from its “supreme gift,” the child.” (CCC, 1664)

 

The Church then, because of the direct teaching of Christ, can never condone divorce and is always desirous of the reconciliation of the spouses. Hence, when spouses obtain a civil decree of divorce, the civil realities of marriage are dissolved. However, the spiritual reality of the marriage covenant continues. This is why “the remarriage of persons divorced from a living, lawful spouse contravenes the plan and law of God as taught by Christ. They are not separated from the Church, but they cannot receive Eucharistic communion.” (CCC, 1665)

 

In those cases where divorce occurs, each spouse has the right to approach a Church tribunal in order to establish whether or not their particular marriage was indeed marriage as the Church understands marriage to be. The tribunal for its part will examine the facts of the individual case and seek out the truth of the matter. This is generally accomplished through interviews, written testimony, and documentary evidence. If it is established that the marriage in question was defective in some way, then the Tribunal issues an affirmative decision that would allow the spouses to celebrate marriage anew. The decision of Tribunal in this regard, does not impact the legitimacy of any children that were born of the union.

 

Finally, Pope Frances in Amoris laetitia uses the word accompaniment to describe the Church’s approach to those who are in irregular marriage situations. Simply put, accompanying someone means meeting them where they are and trying, with God’s grace, to help them move to where God wants them to be. Since the Church, as Pope Francis has pointed out, is to be a field hospital, we must deal with whatever ailments we are presented with and strive to offer the best and most prudent treatment for the benefit of the person’s soul and for the well being of any children.

 

Each parish in the Diocese of Charlotte is assigned an advocate who assists those who need to access the assistance of the Diocesan Tribunal. Here at St. Mark both Deacon Louie Pais and Rod Brostrum fulfill this role. Both are more than happy to discuss a particular situation and offer advice on how to move forward. Too often individuals fail to realize the Church’s teaching that, even though he or she is divorced, he or she is not, by that fact, separated from the Church. And, in fact, the Church desires to do all she can to restore full Communion for the salvation of souls.

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From the Parochial Vicar - 7th Sunday in Ordinary Time

February 21, 2025
In today’s Gospel, taken from the sixth chapter of Luke, Jesus offers a very challenging, seemingly impossible approach to daily life. “Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. To the person who strikes you on one cheek, offer the other one as well, and from the person who takes your cloak do not withhold even your tunic.” It makes one want to say, “Seriously, Lord?” And He doesn’t stop there. Jesus adds, “Give to everyone who asks of you, and from the one who takes what is yours do not demand it back.” It seems so unfair! That is, unless we look at this way of life from a stewardship point of view. Then, not only does it seem doable (though challenging), but it also actually makes perfect sense. A steward understands clearly that all he has and all that he is — his very life — is a gift from God given to him from an unfathomable abundance of love. This changes everything! This means “my” cloak, “my” tunic, “my” money, and time — all of it ultimately belongs to God. He has entrusted these things to each of us in love to use for His purposes and His glory. Does this mean we are to be passive “doormats” to anyone who wants to take advantage of us? Certainly not. Jesus explains this in the next verse of this passage when He says, “Do to others as you would have them do to you.” There is nothing wrong with loving oneself since God loves us and has made us in His own image and likeness. Jesus is simply asking that we also approach others, and the sharing of our gifts, with this same attitude. He is giving us a definition here of real love, a steward’s love! ©Catholic Stewardship Consultants, 2025 Pastoral Pondering Work is good, man is born for work, but that does not mean that we should forget that rest is good as well. A lot of times we hear the third commandment of remembering and keeping holy the Sabbath, and we think the commandment is only fulfilled when we attend Mass on that day. The commandment, of course, extends to more than that. Can. 1247 reminds us that in addition to participating at Mass on Sundays and other holy days of obligation, the faithful are to abstain from works and affairs that hinder the worship due to God, the joy proper to the Lord’s day, or suitable relaxation of mind and body. This canon, of course, is an adaptation from the 1917 code which stated explicitly that one is to abstain from servile work, judicial work, and commercial operations (1917 CIC 1248). The specific wording is not present in the recent code but it still requires us to abstain from such works or acts. Regarding the mention of work, there are 4 common ways work can distinguished: The works we hear of frequently in the third commandment are Servile works which are works that require mainly bodily activity and seek to serve the welfare of the body. It gets its name from the fact that this was work that was usually done by servants. So these would include works like digging or ploughing, and mechanical works. Servile work’s character is such that it is not determined by the worker’s intention, the fatigue of the work, nor if there is payment involved. The character is determined by the nature of the work itself. There are also Liberal works/cultural works which are works of the mind. They proceed from the soul and look to cultivate the mind. Examples are reading, writing, singing, playing instruments, drawing and painting. Theologians hold that these works remain liberal even if one is paid for it or expends a lot of energy in performing the work. A third type is called ordinary (natural) work which is done for the daily sustenance of the body. Examples include eating, hunting, driving, cooking etc. A fourth type of work is judicial and commercial work which takes place in court or in the course of public trading. Examples here include sitting in court, defending criminals, buying and selling, etc. There are other forms of work whose natures are difficult to determine, and in such cases one is guided by the common opinion of men. For example painting, rowing, exercise seem like servile work but common opinion sees acts like these as recreation and regard them as lawful. I’m inclined to call exercise an ordinary work because it can be for the daily sustenance of the body. So which ones are not permitted on Sunday? The principle that exists for this subject is that any form of servile, judicial, and commercial work is forbidden on Sundays and holy days of obligation, but cultural and ordinary work is permitted. The reason as stated earlier is that servile, judicial, and commercial work prevent us from giving sufficient attention to the Lord, because of its effect on the body, and this is what the commandment and canon law warn against. Ordinary and liberal work do not have the same effect so they are allowed. Although to this I would add that we do not let them hinder the specifications of Can. 1247. Can we be permitted to do servile work on Sunday? Yes, several causes can allow for servile work to be done on Sundays and on holy days: Dispensations , if there is a just cause, may be granted by the Pope, a bishop in his diocese, or a pastor of his Church. The Custom existing in a place could be a reason why servile work is excused, so long as the custom is permitted and has not been censured by the bishop. Charity , done as a form of relief for one's neighbor who is in need, is sufficient to excuse servile work. Some examples are taking care of the sick and the poor. Necessity excuses one from the obligation if he cannot otherwise support himself. It excuses one when one would not have food for the day if he did not work, or when a person works so as not to lose the job or certain goods. Some might be compelled to work on Sundays, and can’t refuse doing so, such would be a sufficient excuse from the obligation. As is necessary, one is welcome to perform household chores that keep the family fed and the house in proper order. Sometimes the personal necessity might exist if there is a danger of sinning because of idleness. Smallness of the matter can also excuse from violating the obligation. Servile work, if done, should not last more than two hours. And if perhaps the work is light in character, then three hours is good. Piety towards God excuses the violation of the precept. This would mean that works which proximately/directly consider the worship of God are lawful. Best examples of these could be actions that take place within the liturgy, some altar serving roles, ushering duties, working in the church to clean or decorate it. Some final thoughts. Regarding servile works, perhaps they are not the same as they previously were, i.e., the works that servants would do. But many of us are servants in a way, and so what we do on a regular basis could be the servile work that we are called to avoid on Sundays and holy days. Recognize that we should joyfully seek to give God due to worship and relax our minds and bodies.  Rest is good! And what I want for us is to make sure that we are faithful to all, and not just one of the stipulations of the third commandment. — Fr. Chinonso Nnebe-Agumadu

From the Pastor - 6th Sunday in Ordinary Time

By John Putnam • February 14, 2025
Today’s readings speak of an essential quality for the Christian steward — hope. This is especially fitting this year, as Pope Francis has designated 2025 as a Jubilee Year with the theme, "Pilgrims of Hope." According to the Catechism of the Catholic Church, “Hope is the theological virtue by which we desire the kingdom of heaven and eternal life as our happiness, placing our trust in Christ’s promises and relying not on our own strength but on the help of the grace of the Holy Spirit (CCC 1817).” In many ways, this is the very definition of a stewardship way of life — focusing on eternity as we live our daily lives and relying on God to provide for our needs and satisfy our deepest longings for meaning and happiness right now. In today’s Gospel from Luke, Jesus describes the true richness of life that is possible for those of us who are willing to live as his hope-filled disciples. We are all familiar with this passage in which Jesus reveals the Beatitudes: blessed are the poor; they have the kingdom of God. Blessed are those now hungry because they will be satisfied. Blessed are those who weep because they will laugh. Blessed are those who are hated, excluded, and insulted because they are disciples of Jesus; they will be greatly rewarded in heaven. Jesus is describing here the character of one who is living a life of hope – the life of a Christian steward whose trust is firmly rooted in God and who is focused on others and eternity. It is not always an easy life, but it is a deeply meaningful life and one that leads to eternal reward. © Catholic Stewardship Consultants, 2025 Pastoral Pondering Lately, I have had a number of folks ask me different questions regarding the Sacrament of Penance (Confession), so I thought it might be a good idea to address some of those questions that might be of interest to a wider audience. Back in 1983 the International Theological Commission issues a document encouraging a renewal of understanding the sacrament. The opening statement of the document is a beautiful reminder of what it is all about: In the preaching of Jesus, the call to conversion is connected immediately with the good news of the Kingdom of God. (see Mt. 1:14 ff.). Thus, when the Church following Jesus, and by virtue of the mission which it has received, calls to conversion and announces the reconciliation which God has worked through the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ (see 2 Cor. 5:18-20), it preaches a God who is rich in mercy (Eph. 2:4)...Penance must be seen in an organic relationship with the other sacraments. In the first place, it is present in all as the word of reconciliation in the comprehensive teaching of the Church. A central witness to this is the article in the creed: “I believe...in the forgiveness of sins.” (“Penance and Conciliation,” in Origins, 23 [January 12, 1984], pp. 513-524. 1. Is confession necessary for the forgiveness of sins? The two introductory canons concerning the sacrament from the Code of Canon Law answer this question. Can. 959 In the sacrament of penance the faithful who confess their sins to a lawful minister, are sorry for those sins and have a purpose of amendment, receive from God, through the absolution given by that minister, forgiveness of sins they have committed after baptism, and at the same time they are reconciled with the Church, which by sinning they wounded. Can. 960 Individual and integral confession and absolution constitute the sole ordinary means by which a member of the faithful who is conscious of grave sin is reconciled with God and with the Church. Physical or moral impossibility alone excuses from such confession, in which case reconciliation may be attained by other means also. So, grave or mortal sin, under normal circumstances, can only be absolved through the sacrament. 2. Does confession have to be celebrated in a confessional? Can. 964 §1 The proper place for hearing sacramental confessions is a church or oratory. §2 As far as the confessional is concerned, norms are to be issued by the Episcopal Conference, with the proviso however that confessionals, which the faithful who so wish may freely use, are located in an open place, and fitted with a fixed grille between the penitent and the confessor. §3 Except for a just reason, confessions are not to be heard elsewhere than in a confessional. The canon simply states the norm that sacraments should normally be celebrated in a church or oratory. A just cause can justify celebrating the sacrament outside a church or oratory, e.g. a parish office, but this is not the norm. Moreover, confessionals are to be available in accordance with the norms of the Episcopal Conference. The proper norm for the United States was promulgated in 1999: “The National Conference of Catholic Bishops, in accord with the prescriptions of canon 964, §2, hereby decrees the following norms governing the place for sacramental confessions: Provision must be made in each church or oratory for a sufficient number of places for sacramental confessions which are clearly visible, truly accessible, and which provide a fixed grille between the penitent and the confessor. Provision should also be made for penitents who wish to confess face-to-face, with due regard for the Authentic Interpretation of canon 964, §2 by the Pontifical Council for the Interpretation of Legislative Texts, July 7, 1998 (AAS 90 [1998] 711).  3. Can a priest refuse to hear confessions face-to-face? The answer to this question is addressed by the reference to the authentic interpretation noted above. It states the following: “The minister of the sacrament of penance may legitimately decide, even if there is no necessity, to hear confessions in a confessional with a fixed grill.” Hence, the general norm is that the faithful have a right to have their confessions heard. They can also request face-to-face confession; however, the priest-confessor has the right to refuse this request. This is rooted in the protection of the priest in light of situations that have arisen of false accusations made against confessors in the administration of penance. A priest is at a great disadvantage because of the sacramental seal and the inviolability of the sacrament. Therefore, some priests are more comfortable not hearing confessions face-to-face.
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