From the Pastor – 4th Sunday of Easter

May 13, 2019

From the Pastor – 4 th Sunday of Easter

Throughout the Easter season, our readings have given us glimpses into the life of the newborn Church and the bold witness of the early disciples in spreading the Good News of Jesus Christ to all who would listen. These disciples were the first to live a stewardship way of life and their example is as relevant today as it was 2,000 years ago.

In the First Reading, from the Acts of the Apostles, we catch up with Paul and Barnabas in Antioch. While they certainly have some success in reaching many people there with the message of salvation, others are downright infuriated by their words and send them packing. Yet, we read that “the disciples were filled with joy and the Holy Spirit.” Overall, it seems as if Paul and Barnabas had failed in Antioch. But this seeing failure has not robbed them of their joy.  What’s more, they are filled to the brim with the abundant gifts of the Holy Spirit. How is this possible?

It is only possible because Paul and Barnabas saw themselves as nothing more and nothing less than stewards of Christ and His Good News. This realization brought them freedom —  to offer themselves and their lives to others for the sake of the Gospel. The “results” of their efforts were up to God.

This Spirit-filled, joy-filled life is available to all of us, all these years later. It can be achieved when we recognize, like Paul and Barnabas, that all we have and all we are is a gift from God, meant to be shared with others for His glory. Of course, living as God’s stewards does not mean a life of ease or a life free of sacrifice. Sometimes the steward’s life involves great challenges, requiring all the strength and love one has to give. But in the end there is simply no more satisfying way to live.

Pastoral Pondering

I want to congratulate our second graders who received their First Holy Communion yesterday. Our final of three celebrations will be held next Saturday morning. Special thanks goes to Mary Anne Pape, our catechists, St. Mark Second Grade Teachers, and our parents who do so much to prepare our children and make these celebrations possible. First Communion is one of my favorite celebrations during the year because I am always renewed in my own faith when I see the love and devotion that these children have.

Matters of Faith — Last week I addressed some issues surrounding infertility. This week I will again turn to the National Catholic Bioethics center to look at another important moral issue, the end of life. All of us have or will face issues regarding the end of life. These times can be stressful and quite difficult. At the same time, unless there is some preparation, we may be called upon to make serious decisions very quickly. The following information is taken from the resources page of the National Catholic Bioethics Center (ncbcenter.org).

Catholic moral teaching arises from the Catholic understanding of the human person. Specifically, we believe that the human person, made in the image and likeness of God, has inherent worth, intrinsic value. Because of that we reverence the human person from the moment of conception to natural death. The NCBC identifies the following topics for consideration regarding the end of life: the redemptive nature of suffering, the important difference between morally obligatory and optional means of conserving one’s life, the moral and legal status of Advanced Medical Directives and Durable Power of Attorney, and the spread of euthanasia advocacy in America today.

It is a normal human response to want to avoid suffering. Yet, we know in every day life, that suffering comes. Whether it comes to the athlete who pushes himself or herself on the athletic field, someone recovering from the effects of surgery or someone dealing with the natural aches and pains of the aging process, every one of us will experience physical suffering in some way.

For the Christian our understanding of suffering must always be seen through the lens of the passion, death and resurrection of Christ. The Heavenly Father did not will suffering to be a part of the human experience. That came into reality because of the sin of Adam and Eve, but the Father allowed the reality of suffering to become salvific in the offering of His Son, Jesus Christ. Because of this, we can unite ourselves and our suffering to the Cross of Jesus Christ. In doing so, we assist with the work of salvation for the entire world. As St. Paul says, “Now I rejoice in my sufferings for your sake, and in my flesh I complete what is lacking in Christ’s afflictions for the sake of his body, that is, the Church…(Col. 1:24 RSV). Hence, as Catholics, we are called to freely embrace a share in the sufferings of Christ in reparation for our own sins and for the sins of the world.

In considering obligatory and optional means, the main consideration is that we may never directly take innocent human life, including our own. The distinction that is often made in this regard is what is required or ordinary and what is not required or extraordinary. Many years ago Pope Pius XII indicated that we are bound “to use only ordinary means — according to the circumstances of persons, places, times and culture —that is to say, means that do not involve any grave burden for oneself or another. A stricter obligation would be too burdensome for most people and would render the attainment of the higher, more important good too difficult. Life, health, all temporal activities are in fact subordinated to spiritual ends.”

Even though the advances in medical science has made this determination more difficult, we can say that when a medical procedure has little home of improving the health of the person or, because of various factors, is overly burdensome, then it can be legitimately refused. It is important to seek moral guidance from priests and others who have expertise in moral theology and medical ethics in addition to the advice of physicians and health care workers. In order to make such decisions, all pertinent information needs to be available and provided to the patient. Normal care, including nutrition and hydration, are in general morally obligatory; unless it can be shown that doing so would cause harm to the patient.

Advanced Medical Directives and a Durable Power of Attorney are very useful in preparing for the inevitability of these difficult situations. In general the directives should “focus on goals rather than specific medical procedures”. Care has to be taken in their preparation, however, to insure they reflect and expressive of Catholic values and faith. The durable POA is the most useful because you entrust these decisions to someone that knows who you are, what you believe, and how you want these matters handled.

Finally, there has been a move for some time to promote and expand the use of euthanasia around the world. In some places, it has already been very much operative. Pope St. John Paul II defines euthanasia as “an action or omission which of itself and by intention causes death, with the purpose of eliminating all suffering.” The names of Terri Schiavo, Charlie Gard and others come to mind. As more and more government entities embrace these practices, it becomes even more important to be clear about your desires concerning the end of life. It’s something that you should consider now, so that you can be prepared tomorrow.

Please know that the priests and deacons of the parish are happy to be of assistance to you in discussing these matters. As noted above the NCBC has a wealth of information that is easily accessible and understandable concerning these and other important moral issues.

From the Pastor

From the Pastor - 32nd Sunday in Ordinary Time

By John Putnam • November 6, 2026
Wisdom is at the heart of today's readings. It is one of the seven gifts of the Holy Spirit and an essential gift for living the stewardship way of life. As Christian stewards, we should continually ask the Holy Spirit to deepen this gift within us. In today's Gospel, Jesus tells the parable of the 10 virgins waiting for the bridegroom. Five are wise, and five are foolish. The wise virgins prepare ahead of time, bringing enough oil to keep their lamps burning. The foolish ones fail to prepare and are caught off guard when the bridegroom arrives. Jesus concludes with this reminder: "Therefore, stay awake, for you know neither the day nor the hour." Stewardship helps us live with that same spirit of readiness. When we seek the Lord each day through prayer, the sacraments, and the faithful use of the gifts He has entrusted to us, we keep our hearts prepared to meet Him whenever He calls. That is the wisdom Christ desires for each of us. © Catholic Stewardship Conference, 2026 Pastoral Pondering - Rooting Out Anger Few things disturb the peace of a home, a parish, or a soul as quickly as anger. A sharp word at the dinner table, a resentful silence after Mass, a flash of irritation in traffic-each seems small in the moment, yet the Fathers of the Church warn us that anger is a deadly poison. St. John Cassian, the great monastic teacher whose writings shaped Western spirituality, dedicated an entire book of his Institutes to this vice. His counsel is bracing and practical for us today. Cassian insists that anger must be "utterly rooted out from the inmost corners of our soul." As long as it remains, it blinds the eye of the heart. We lose right judgment, the capacity for true counsel, and even the ability to pray. "The wrath of man worketh not the righteousness of God" (James 1:20). Whether the provocation seems just or unjust makes little difference: anger covers the eyes of the soul like a plate of gold or lead- the value of the metal does not restore sight. He rejects the common excuse that we may be angry with those who do wrong, or that Scripture's language of God's "anger" justifies our own passion. God is free from all disturbance; the biblical language of divine anger is metaphorical, pointing to His just judgment, not to a human emotion we may imitate. To use it as permission for our own resentment is, Cassian says, to draw from the Scriptures an occasion of sin rather than a remedy of holiness. There is, however, one legitimate use of the energy of anger: we may and should be indignant against the evil thoughts and disordered desires that rise within our own hearts. When we are ashamed of what we would never say or do before others, yet find it stirring inside, we are to rage against that disorder, trembling before the all-seeing eye of God. In this sense the psalmist's "Be angry and sin not" (Psalm 4:4) and St. Paul's citation of it (Ephesians 4:26) are understood: be angry with your own faults, lest the Sun of Righteousness set upon a darkened mind and the devil be given place. Cassian's remedies are simple and severe. First, make a firm resolution never to be angry at all-neither for good reasons nor bad. The moment the passion enters, discernment is lost and the soul can no longer be a temple of the Holy Spirit. Second, never attempt to pray while angry; such prayer is obstinate rebellion. Third, keep daily before your eyes the uncertainty of life and the certainty of judgment. All our other efforts- Mass, fasting, works of charity- profit nothing if anger and hatred alone bring us to eternal punishment. Practically, this means catching the first interior movement of irritation and turning it at once into sorrow for our own impatience. It means refusing to nurse the grievance past sunset, seeking reconciliation before the next Holy Communion, and enlarging the heart with patience so that the "waves of anger" are received and dissipated rather than confined and intensified. Peace, Cassian reminds us, does not depend on the conduct of others; it lies in our own control. In the confessional and in the daily struggle of parish life, I see how often this vice wounds families and friendships. Let us ask the Lord, who is meek and humble of heart, to give us the grace to root it out. May the peace of Christ, which surpasses all understanding, guard our hearts and our parish. In other news, due to an unexpected leave, I have been appointed as Vicar General and Chancellor of the Diocese of Charlotte by Bishop Martin. While this appointment is expected to be temporary, during the interim, it will make my ability to take appointments rather limited. Please be patient with the office staff as they try to accommodate those needs along with my additional responsibilities.

From the Pastor - All Saints Day

By John Putnam • October 30, 2026
On this Solemnity of All Saints, we have the profound joy of celebrating our brothers and sisters in Christ, the saints. This is an especially meaningful feast for us as Christian stewards. At Baptism, each of us receives the call to holiness and discipleship. In other words, we are all called to become saints. Holiness is not reserved for a select few. It is God's desire for every one of His children. The stewardship way of life helps us answer that call each day. In today's Gospel from Matthew, Jesus gives us the Beatitudes. They reveal the qualities that mark the lives of His disciples and point us toward authentic holiness. As we continue striving to live as faithful stewards, the Beatitudes provide a faithful measure of our growth in Christ. The "blessed" that Jesus describes are not different categories of people who make it to heaven. Rather, they reveal the character of those who belong to Him - the poor in spirit, the merciful, the pure of heart, the peacemakers, and all who remain faithful in the midst of trials. None of us can live this way on our own. But as beloved children of God, we receive the grace we need through prayer, the sacraments, and a life centered on Christ. May the example of the saints inspire us to persevere in our own call to holiness, trusting that one day we will join them in the everlasting joy of heaven. © Catholic Stewardship Conference, 2026 Pastoral Pondering October brought us the Church's renewed attention to mental health. Pope Leo XIV has asked us this month to pray that our communities become places where those who carry unseen burdens find welcome, dignity, and hope- not judgment or silence. Many of those burdens are carried by women and girls. Some have lived through abuse, assault, or trauma that few around them even know about. Recent headlines, including those from Cornell University, have reminded the whole country how widespread these wounds are and how alone many survivors feel. Regardless of the outcome and veracity of the Cornell case, these types of cases exist closer to home. Women in our own parish and community often suffer quietly, unsure where to turn or whether anyone will truly understand. There is help, and there is hope. Healed and Restored, the local Catholic ministry founded by our own parishioner Elza Spaedy, exists precisely for this purpose. Through counseling, workshops, spiritual mentoring, retreats, and a supportive community, it walks with women and girls who have experienced abuse, assault, domestic violence, trafficking, or other trauma. Rooted in faith, it helps them encounter the Divine Physician who alone can restore what has been broken and discover that their wounds do not define them. Many of the women who have walked this path have found real freedom and a renewed sense of their dignity as daughters of God. If you are carrying a wound like this, or if you know someone who is, I encourage you to reach out. Information is available at healedandrestored.org. And if you simply want to stand with those who are hurting, please keep them in your prayers. Sometimes the greatest gift we can offer is to notice, to listen without fear, and to point someone toward the healing Christ offers. May the Lord who binds up the brokenhearted make our parish a place of true restoration.